I remember as though it were yesterday: The first time I heard "The Peace Song." It was at the close of a Sunday service at the Unity Church in Golden Valley, Minnesota. I was just a few months sober and had gone to Unity at the suggestion of one of my new friends in AA. At the close of the service all the congregants stood and held hands. And then the singing began. I was mesmerized. As the tears streamed down my face, I stood transfixed by the simple beauty of the words, the beauty of the voices that surrounded me and the quiet beauty of the truth of the message those words carried. I knew at that moment that my life was truly changing. I just didn't have any idea of the extent of that change. Fast-forward 41 years: I am still sober and still growing, still discovering transformation through the many encounters I have been privileged to experience since that Sunday so long ago. Over these many decades of sobriety and spiritual growth through recovery, I have come to cherish a certain few principles which I will share with you that have allowed me to walk more securely along the many pathways that brought me here, to this moment in time. There were obstacles along the way of course. There always are. They are the opportunities we have been gifted to stretch us and push us to becoming the companions our many fellow travelers have needed to encounter so that they, too, could become who they were meant to be. I truly embrace the idea that we will always meet those individuals we need to encounter, not just for our own edification and growth, but theirs, too. This is not an "accidental course" we are on. Indeed not. I am here as are you because of the divinity of the journey we have agreed to share. To reiterate, choosing to live my life these many years being governed by a few very simple principles has given me the quiet well-being that I usually experience. However, those moments of quiet peace that slip out of my grasp are the result of my inattentiveness to here, now. But the introduction to a third pathway to peace has enhanced my awareness of "this moment." How very grateful I am that a book called A Course in Miracles: My Third Pathway, blessed my life nearly 30 years ago. I had no idea I was searching for its particular message; I only knew that I needed something more. AA and Al-Anon were, and still are, the cornerstones of my spiritual growth; cornerstones that I will never wander away from. But I continued to yearn for a closer sense of "the presence" of the Spirit that I had been assured accompanied me everywhere. It was while reading the words so beautifully conveyed to Helen Schucman, the writer of A Course in Miracles, that I heard the messages that God was intending for me to hear. And I was ready for them. I have remained ready for them. Not unlike 12 Step programs, we aren't really ever done with hearing and rehearing the messages that are meant for us in the many gatherings that invite us in, the many books that cry for rereading, the many moments of quiet reflection on all that we have come to know. I have been a proponent of "the course"—coupled with the spiritual principles so embedded in 12-Step philosophy—since that very first moment that I knew I had been called to carry this message in my workshops, my books, and my very being. This clear direction has allowed me to move forward confidently and purposefully, to impart what I have gleaned from those many "voices" that have spoken to me. The message I herald is simple, and not uncommon. It has been heard from the lips of Mother Teresa, and in the writings of the Dalai Lama—and in many of those individuals we sit amongst at meetings, day in and day out. It's about being a messenger of peace, an expression of love, serving as a witness to the hearts and minds of all those men and women and children who have not wandered our way by accident. It's also about accepting that we are powerless over the lives of others but never powerless over how we acknowledge those others who pass us by. And it's about forgiveness: of all others and ourselves, particularly for our many judgments. As I read in the course so many years ago, "the ego speaks first; it speaks loudest, and it is always wrong." It's that very dominant voice in our minds that pushes us to be all that the Holy Spirit tries to steer us away from being. With the ego in charge, we will never know peace. The simple principles that continue calling to me also include these: Detaching from the drama of others' lives offers us peace of mind. When others begin to bother you, change your focus. Don't let anyone else define who you are. It's a fact: we cannot control anyone else. Letting go is an act that blesses everyone, everywhere. Separation from others is an illusion. We are joined in the Oneness of Spirit. No experience is lacking in purpose. Seek to understand it. Every encounter with another person is holy. Chance plays no part in God's plan. While these are not the only principles that guide me, I know after many years on this spiritual path that any one of these principles, well-honed, has the power to change the life we are living in the moment. And any of these principles practiced any time by any one of us can impact the universe. Seem farfetched? Think again. Every action, every thought, emanates a vibration that moves beyond it. We do have the power to send forth whatever vibration we desire. Why not make it a peaceful one? Karen Casey, PhD, is the best-selling author of Each Day a New Beginning, which has sold more than three million copies and has been translated into ten languages. Among her other best-selling books are Keepers of the Wisdom, A Woman's Spirit, Fearless Relationships, and A Life of My Own. Womens-Spirituality.com.